Propositioned

15 Sep

More on the wedding later, but a strange thing happened. A guy I was at university with and haven’t seen in nine years spent all night telling me I looked “a million dollars” and also “a bit like a mermaid”. The Little Mermaid was my favourite as a kid, so I was happy.

I don’t fancy this dude. I don’t fancy anyone right now. And he is basically Ross from Friends. So I told him about the ex to put him off. The heartbreak. The missing him. We chatted about it.

I woke up this morning to a Facebook friend request and an invite to go on a “hot date” next time he’s in London.

It didn’t give me butterflies.

But it made me smile.

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7 Responses to “Propositioned”

  1. Just Someone September 15, 2013 at 9:22 am #

    Great!! That’s the best way to come out of it!! Don’t get drifted away, but do enjoy these moments and feel better 🙂

  2. shiftybananas September 15, 2013 at 10:42 am #

    Haha! I swear I was about to write a post with the same title. My story is a bit different. Keep up the good work!

  3. angrybeeornottobee September 15, 2013 at 12:29 pm #

    It might not have given you butterflies but it shows that you haven’t lost it and that you shouldn’t think bad thoughts about yourself like I’ve been doing. You are a desirable person! It might not be the guy you want but that doesn’t stop you being desirable!

  4. iwantmyhusbandback September 15, 2013 at 1:38 pm #

    I like this post! It made me smile and i’ve been a miserable cow all day! xx

    • aprileb September 15, 2013 at 2:44 pm #

      Ah, glad it made you smile. He’s done us both the world of good! Hope your day improves x

  5. luciddream85 September 15, 2013 at 3:56 pm #

    It may not have given you butterflies, but one day someone will. You’re just not ready yet.

  6. jadedwildcat September 18, 2013 at 3:32 am #

    Don’t know how I missed seeing this post over the weekend – weird.
    This is honestly such a good thing, in a couple of ways. You at least know that you’ve still got it goin’ on, and that others are noticing – AND – you also know that you’re strong and level-headed enough not to perhaps, rebound or anything like that. A LOT of people really can’t not rebound for some reason, I guess because loneliness can be so crippling and the company of someone – anyone- else very tempting…
    Very glad to read this post.
    xoxo

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